I wanted to talk to someone but who I thought? I’ve never posted on a blog before and Im Gen, it is my day 39. She just has to work with me a little sometimes.
I had severe depression which resulted in a suicide attempt, i have been super hormonal today and like your wife i feel terrible about it. I love reading this site, enter your email address to follow this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email.
I’ll be moving over to her state in August to be with her more. The Medicines and Healthcare Regulatory Products Agency — it can’t really be that bad!
I’ll smoke anywhere I want! I can only imagine how you feel — the doctors say that she will most likely be induced tuesday but she is the same or worse. Feeling lonely and sorry for myself, ask him to support as he has been doing before you got pregnant instead of making you feel bad because you cant help feeling sick. It’s so difficult though, my faith is in God.
She used to be that way. We are at 14 weeks now. She asked me why I had visited a porn site.
I just can’t understand how she would ignore the person she wanted to spend the rest of her life with. In real life – IT SUCKS! I am eleven weeks pregnant for the first time. My Mrs is 12 weeks pregnant and to be honest it has been a very rough time for both of us.
A review of more than a dozen studies into Champix found that smokers who tried to quit using the drug were almost twice as likely to be taken to hospital with heart problems in the coming year as those who took dummy pills when trying to kick the habit. Wow – So I am not the only one with problems lol. I’m goen threw the same thing. She believes honesty is the best policy and when she gets moody, man, does some hurtful stuff come out.
Thanks for creating this blog and many thanks to everyone else for all the replies to it. I told her when her 4 year was sick that I would rather be sick at her house with her and her daughter then at mine in good healther and alone. What is your quit smoking mantra?
It is so strange I find myself on day 39 now and find this blog, where almost everyone had a problem around the same amount of days as me. She told me she needs her space, so i’m obviously trying to give her space and be there for her at the same time. That I am afraid of both the power and the sickness those little sticks contain.
Are you ready for Freedom? I feel incredibly needy and constantly want to talk about our future to reassure myself that we will be ok and that i shouldn’t worry but, despite his best efforts, there is nothing he can say that seems to help. You can call me Harold Saxon, MP.
Put your feelings in a deep dark cave for 9 months. Especially when your shot down and demeaned so bad, that it makes you even question yourself. 4-5 months now i wont lie pregnancy hormones are so intense, but i deal with them. Baby steps, be brave, say ‘no’ to just that next cigarette!
I’m only 8 weeks in and I realize that she must be going through a lot of changes right now. All expectant fathers should read the works of Robert Coles and Jean Piaget.
However, don’t let it devolve into something insulting or argumentative. And, remember, if you slip, just try and try again. A young man that once told me I was everything he could ever ask for. Thought I was going crazy.
My wife is now 7 weeks pregnant, and its 3 weeks since we found out. But I wouldn’t want to be on this ride with anyone. Laughter is a good way to diffuse a pregnant loon.
When I leave for work, she goes on to my computer and looks up my browsing history. I can only bite my tongue for so long and then I stand up for myself. He has worked the last two weekends and is off today test driving another one.
The comments below have not been moderated. Boy, I deserve a cigarette! I keep trying to tell him that. Either way, I wish you the best of luck and let me know if you have any questions or concerns.
Until I stumbled onto your writings I felt like I was the only man in the world to ever deal with the Pregosaurus Rex. I’m hormonal, scared, feel like I let my entire family down.
Im 28 and my fiancee is 8 mons thingss stsrted off really well now al she does is complai abt being tired. Lol, its like a roller coaster ride everyday. I could enter the code proving I’m not a robot below, she sent me a text that we waste too many trees on junk because the mail weighed as much as her three year old hahaha. Be there when she wants you to be, and don’t be there when she wants space.
But we got back together our connection was still strong so we moved in and very shortly after she was pregnant while taking birth control. Recently she’s been on this new kick about spying on me electronically. I have been so focused on healing and taking care of my kids that I didn’t feel like there was time for a relationship.
It helps keep me on track. It happens at different times for everyone, but definitely before the 100 days. I’m here looking for more or less something to feel more wanted myself i don’t feel the touch gone completely, and i dont want to sound selfish but i miss some thing’s, As i’m sure when this kid comes I’m going to be the least of worries.
I apologize to him constantly cause I feel bad for being snappy at him but I have come to find out that even though I apologize he still continues to do the stupid little things that irritate me more than anything in this world. I do know however, that their is light at the nd of the tunnel, and the children are worth it. See I’ve loved my wife since we were kids.
My wife being 33 at the time and me being 27. Keep in mind that she is in a very emotional state.
She pushes my buttons and threatens ending our relationship constantly. 10weeks pregnant, every phone call ends up in an argument, mostly from her, and she calls me the meanest things i have ever heard.
My 10 year anniversary of NOPE is coming up soon. I really can’t tell what I got myself into? I cannot believe how easy it was to order, pay and then receive the goods.
He lovingly explained that I needed to drink more water, I had gone through too many Diet Coke bottles that week and needed to think about our baby. I try to bite my tongue and never hear a thank you or a sorry, all I hear is complete an utter crazy. I understand now why women get so crazy while pregnant. Why are you spending money like this?
Is this normal, did my pregnancy trigger a mid life crisis or force him back to his teenage years? We don’t want to act mean and crazy and we feel horrible afterwards. My fiance, whom I love to death, is regrettably changed unto what so many of you have described.
I have to be patient and wait for calm to return to me – I am normally such a grounded person. Or do we have to put up with it? I’m hungry,” she said playfully.
I honestly feel like um their father. I mean, I didn’t do this on my own.
SOME WOMEN DONT KNOW HOW TO DO THAT. And to tell them that if they need to call me they can do so at anytime. Anyhow, I believe it will be alright, that everything will calm down, that I will become more patient, less intense, hopefully before the birth, but definitely after. Man o man this is tough.
Really, it is not funny. Depending on your Internet connection speed, the download time may take from 30 to 60 minutes. I PROMISE that the more days that go by the easier it gets.
We were together for a few months before becoming engaged and now are questioning the whole thing. We were really great friends and dated for almost 16 months before she found out she was pregnant. 6 weeks to go and im out of the woods ! Don’t let a slip put you back to using”?
Joel, you never smoked or quit, how can you know? It is useful to remember that the withdrawal bleed that you have when you take a 7 day break from taking your pill is not a natural period. If not already asked and answered, submit your quit smoking question to Joel.
I can’t tell you that she will change her mind in the future, but she will change back to more of the person you used to know. Guys – a word of advice – be empthatic. I hope it gets better. A hole24 hours a day.
Our sex life has stoped now for 10 weeks. She is taking online course’s and stuff to do while cooking our bun in the oven, I’m more or less hooping for some tips, and things that i can help, it’s boiled down to . My girlfriend and I have been broken up for a couple of weeks now, and we never had any problems until she found out she was pregnant.
I’m hoping that the second trimester will make a difference for her. Just support her lunacy and cravings, and keep in mind that she’s going through a tough time.
That being said, I have been in 2 relationships over the past 4 yrsone was short lived. I agree that we moved really fast in our relationship as we dated for only 4 months before we decided to get married, and found out she was pregnant while doing wedding plans. As I neared the end of my work I realized that she hadn’t said anything in a few minutes. These blogs are all brilliant help and as a woman who is 21 weeks pregnant I am very comforted to hear that I am not the only person who is being taken over by these awful mood swings.
We were planning a fall wedding. Seems like this has been going on since the beginning of time lol.
She has apologized in brief moments of sanity–but they don’t last long. It’s so hard to explain, and even when you logically KNOW that him calling the company secretary to send an email on his behalf is NO reason to go off the wall, you feel the symptoms start. Will I ever stop thinking of cigarettes? She hasn’t told me she loves me in 3 weeks.
He is telling me I need to make changes with my attitude and I don’t know what I am supposed to do? 2 or 3 weeks after, we were still hanging out time to time, and she and the kids and i went to festivals, held hands kissed said we loved each other all the good stuff. Your information is kept in the strictest of confidence. Give them books on how pregnancy hormones can make you feel.
Thats the way I feel and I’m sure she has it worse. I am somehow always wrong, not that men are ever right agaisnt women, but it got 1000 times worse. I did exactly this sort of thing — cry over things that probably didn’t matter because they mattered to me, then.
Sometimes I think if we are so stupid to even tolerate this for 1 day. My world came crushing in front of me, I was shocked, scared, angry, confused. I was just chatting with another former smoker and it does seem like there are a lot of similar experiences that happen on specific days.
My boyfriend is 14 yrs younger than me and a wonderful, beautiful person. 26,000 records of non-serious side effects such as nausea and rashes dating back to 2006, the year Chantix, or varenicline, was approved.
We were both happy at first, and then came telling her mother. I struggled being at fault with everything I did. Well thanks everyone this has brightened my day with a small ray of light and hope! So we dated for a while but I told her I needed some time to work on myself.
I am 14 weeks prego and outrageously horny, I cant go a day without thinking about sex . I am so confused as I thought I have been good and feeling happier as my sickness has eased. And my wife is TOUGH, so at first I couldn’t figure out what the heck was going on.
I left the house, broken, bleeding and sobbinghe was bruised and traumatised. Some days I really don’t know how I’m going to make itbut I have no choice but to keep pushing through.
Later you realize that she was just in her Hyde state of mind. Try giving her some space. If you’re unsure, our in-house GPs can also recommend the best treatment for you. My wife is pregnant and has been become more and more hormonal with every passing day.
You know that don’t you? For me, all the “honey, love, dear, bello” and any kind of sweet noum has been deleted from her vocabulary in an instant. The second reason is that she’s pregnant with YOUR child.
24 weeks prego now, and as i said, havent heard from her in 14 days. Definitely not any feeling of affection or desire to be with me, no talk about the future. I like projects, I made myself the project.
I currently live in the living room and sleep on the couch. My partner is about 15 weeks, and things have been pretty hard lately to the stage where she has been spending time apart from me. Please use language suitable for youth.