I thought it was all happy all the time, i did not know how hormonal I was the first time, i want a divorci drive the man crazy. Men can escape them; i was at peace with my decision and was only going to worry about my son. Smoked for 20 years used chantix to quit, she searched me out and we started dating again. I’ve never posted on a blog before and Im Gen, i think we all have to hang in there.
Know at times i cab be a little pushy but if i even mention how ibfeel she automatically gets mad and get extremely defensive ivtell her all the time how much I care for her and how bad i want tovsettle down and start a family which were things she used to mention she wanted, and I’m an intelligent person with all the knowledge in the world trying to stay sane. I really like smoking, 5 years ago I watched my mother die from lung cancer and I still didn’t quit.
My Fiance’ and I are 8 weeks today and I’m pretty sure I just got a first taste of the “hormone induced beat down” I found this site in turn and it has made me feel better that I’m not alone and at the same time nervous about what may be to come. Me and my girlfriend started off too fast for a certain reasons, now she five months pregnant. If you suffer or begin to suffer from these ailments, you would do well to talk to a health professional and address them separately. We get back together 2 or 3 weeks later and its all bells and whistles.
You’re not quitting smoking, you’re becoming a non smoker. We have been married for one year. And yes, I know my wife will one day be back to her lovely, tough, yet caring, self. I quit 49 days ago smoking s pack a day from reading Alan carrs book.
What makes it worse is that we live 2 hours apart. These will then continue for up to four years on average, however the NHS have stated that 1 in 10 women will have menopausal symptoms for up to 12 years. I’m not sure when and where I should set boundries our push my limits of what’s acceptable.
She pushes my buttons and threatens ending our relationship constantly. I still go walking for 45 minutes every morning.
Me and my partner are well into our pregnancy. This has been going on for about a week now and I am even getting on my nerves over it.
1, 2014, decided I’d had enough. I came across this article after loosing my cool while working and really need help coping with the changes happening in me. I don’t notice it while I am getting upset or crying, but once I’m done I do.
How are you doing now? I’d be dead a hundred times over. My situation is my girlfriend who lives interstate used to practically brag about how much she loved me and about all the plans we had, then suddenly she broke it off. You can’t have both I know its a crapper but seriously, swallow your pride, smile and don’t let it get you down.
Keep at it and l promise it will get better. 50 days an angry but Yes. I was active, had been nutrition-conscious all my life, felt great all the time in spite of smoking a pack a day for 50 years.
I fell apart, I was broken! Access from your Country was disabled by the administrator.
I know she’s hormonal, but it’s not an excuse to say cruel or mean things to me, like telling me I’m not going to or allowed to be part of the baby’s life. It’s crazy i read all these different stories, and it makes me think of my niece she is 20 has a 1 yr old girl and is now pregnant 6 mo with a little baby boy she met there dad almost 3 yrs ago and they first fell in love right out of high school she got pregnant with there daughter a little quick and they lived with his mother of course had nothing but issues, they finally got there own place and now all of a sudden he decides he can’t handle her constant bitching and try’s to put the blame all on her and he broke up with her so of course she had no choice but to move back home with her parents and is now she is totally lost and i do not blame her, he is 21 and of course like i said blames her his excuse on breaking up with her was he cant handle her but in all reality is i think he cant handle the idea of growing up and being a man and he is using her being prego as his poor ass excuse to leave her cause he rather hang out with his friends 3 4 times a week while she works 40 plus hours she comes home takes responsibility as a mother yes he works but he thinks hanging with friends is more important now don’t get me wrong he loves his daughter and she adores her daddy, but what about mommy, they where so in love when they first met he proposed to her they where going to get married, i just feel so bad for her cause her hormones where raging before and now its worse and he has put so much strain on her emotions that she not eating good hasn’t gained but like maybe 8 lbs doesn’t seem to care about the baby shower no more, don’t get me wrong she is an ossum mother and loves her daughter and is going to love her son just the same but this is soooo hard on her, and with all she is going through i don’t think he could evvvvvver possibly understand the kinda strain she is in and going through, i think more men need to read the stories on sites like this to get a better understanding as to what women truly go through. I drop what i’m doing even if it’s just 10 minutes even more so now that she is bearing my child. Hopefully, she’ll start evening out.
That night I told him to call this woman and basically make her feel like I felt, and he refused, said it wasnt her fault. I am on day 13 after my last smoke. I use to be an ever smiling person and always positive and quitting smoking has made me go thru soo much.
Daily exercise is extremely beneficial for the mind. It is not unusual to see an ex smoker rapidly shift from being calm and happy, to being agitated and angry. I endeavour to keep my tongue bound and listen to the enraged on-slaught without response, but there is only so much a guy can take at a time, and she really knows how to press the buttons – to battle we shall go.
I’m really sorry to hear everything you’re going through. So I just shut up and carryd on watching TV, next thing I know her dinner plate gets thrown into the sink, smash that goes then she sits down ant throws the ash tray across the room. I promised myself that if the bathroom issue was solved, I would never touch a cigarette ever again. Sometimes I think if we are so stupid to even tolerate this for 1 day.
You are much stronger then theses stupid withdrawal symptoms. Then she will be better. I really love and i don’t wanna lose her. I don’t want a smoke but I’m sooo angry and feeling depressed and frustrated.
I felt great last week to a point where I thought I was over this. Although couple of things have worked for me. Consider visits to a paid therapist.
I looked up a little disbelievingly. I have been married for three months, and my wife is 13 weeks pregnant.
I still have very metalic bad taste in throat. Now, she’s 11 weeks pregnant.
3 of my life, but it’s not easy. I am only on Day 15 and am really irritable all the time. You need some sort of physical release. Looking back from today, I am so ashamed at my conduct, as I am never rude like that, nor do I like to leave the house without sorting out disagreements.
I am also an avid Batman fan. Thank God I live alone so I don’t have to subject my foulness on anyone else, but I am ashamed to admit that my dog got on my last nerve and I hit her so hard that I knocked her to the floor.
Can someone answer me how much leaway I should allow when it comes to decisions involving our coming baby before I start an argument? The hormones are a blind sided punch from Mother Nature. Just give her what she wants and ride off into the sunset like a lonely cowboy. I feel like the magnesium is an absolute wonder.
2 months to goi am talking more frequent walks to leave the intense crazy behind for an hourfor we all have to swim in that pool till the little bundle of joy arrives and normality returns. I have been having serious thoughts of leaving him.
Its interesting to read how both men and women say how we, as pregnant women, KNOW we’re acting crazy and we must work to control it. Love my Michelob Ultra, too — four every evening over four hours.
I always started up again because of the constipation. I try to support him but he shuts me off . Your blog is one of the funniest I’ve read in a long time – and it was pretty well-timed to an unnecessary argument that seemed similar to your aggressive Milky-Way-backrub altercation. I have been smoke-free for 3 days and the first 2 I didn’t go the bathroom at all.
Quitting Smoking and Weight Gain. 3 weeks to the day and i feel no better now than i did on the first day. Until I stumbled onto your writings I felt like I was the only man in the world to ever deal with the Pregosaurus Rex.
I really like smoking, as stupid as that sounds. I’m always getting my head chewed off as if I’m a 12 yr old child. Any advice would be appreciated. 25 year old and my wife is 34.
When I tried to go in the bedroom to get some shorts. It is dramatic, however it is how I feel. I am a woman, have never been pregnant but sometimes deals with severe PMS.
I replied with a smile. 6 Weeks into my quit. I was thinking there is no way I start hating my husband for no reason. I feel this so hard.
Wow can’t believe im not the only one! Today I have already had a go at a few people in the office just because they exist my irritability is at maximum and feel a new wall appear.
Currently in a relationship with the women of my dreams for about three years now. I love this girl like crazy and want a normal family My only plan is to just wait till our son is born and pray she snaps out of it . Luuuuuv this site almost as much as I’d love to have a cig! What is the Best Way to Quit Smoking Cigarettes?
We have enough to start a solid college fund. I’m a glass is half full kind of guy.
That made her cry more because she now felt worse that I was being understanding. I decided it was time to stop. I am going to see my GP tomorrow and ask for a blood test for hypothyroid, which apparently can be masked by smoking as it increases your metabolism.
I have served it for so long I do not know what I will do with myself and my free time. I think he’s having a tough time dealing with the emotional me, as I’m normally quite level headed and calm. I have always made it 3 months then I get mad and something gives in me. I am worried about it !
However, she has too live with those moods constantly for nine months and beyond when things settle down internally. If she asks you a pointed question or makes a comment like “I feel distant”, simply reply with a cool straight forward response that can calm the situation. Do not go down that road. Its all about her felllas.
I’m trying to stay focus even if i don’t feel she loves me but i my mind, i hope it is hormonal because everything i’m doing is wrong. I am facing the same exact problems as most of you are. On Wellbutrin and put a patch on this morning when I woke up. I just sold my house and will be moving in with my brother to give her the space she needs.
I’m on day 11 and I legit feel like I am going to die! Were clogged printers to blame for Chicago’s high crime rate in the early 1990s? It’s your job to keep quiet.
It combines the ability to admit your mistakes with the strength to correct them. This time, I want to do it for me, for my health.
I really enjoyed reading this and Im surely going to browse through the rest of your sight! 6 weeks to go and im out of the woods !
Just a quick note firstly to Jennifer – I do hope that you will firstly tell your partner what you have told the blog, but also show him the site, it is a great read. I don’t know why women act like this when there pregnant but they do! I knew my girlfriend for about three years prior to us starting a relationship. They will be so dissapointed in memaybe even as much as I am with myself.
The second reason is that she’s pregnant with YOUR child. Right now she’s 12 weeks.
15 weeks for me i. Uh oh, hold on tighter but not too tight or she’ll yell.